Late reason

Late reason
    Train the lesson to go on in an adult's psychological consultation.
A middle aged man slips into the classroom from the back door silently. His cat's waist, holding the breath, attempt to escape from the teacher's sight. He is late.
When he curves the lower body and plans to sit on a seat most nearby in the last row, the teacher has stopped him: "This classmate, could you come in the front? "
His face is so shy as to be aglow immediately, he says at once: "Unfair to a teacher, the road has blocked up, so I   "Concentrating one's attention the students listening to the talk are throwing the sight into him one after another, everybody eats and smiles eating, is a kind of well-meaning making fun of. After all, one late middle aged man, at this moment but have pity on and not lovelying like a child making a mistake, childhood when enough to let everybody remember oneself to be naughty and pure.
The teacher says gently: "I know, everybody will have a late reason, but you are late after all, punish you for giving a performance. "
"Give a performance? " The middle aged man is more shy, the finger entangles ceaselessly the schoolbag is taken, " I can not can not sing dance as well as, I have never performed and celebrated a festival the eye   "He does not really know what is to be done.
"It doesn't matter, perform any program at will, all of us are welcomed. Though your coming late has broken our listening to the teacher, your performance will bring happiness to us, I believe each classmate will applaud warmly. " The teacher hardly finishes speaking, burst into warm applause in the classroom, the happy laugh fills the air in applause.
"Moan and cough! " Late schoolboy has one sound of clear throat, will perform finally. After the fragmentary laugh, peace and quiet that nearly suffocates has appeared in the classroom. Only see him hold the head high, has given out loud and sonorous sharp trying their best from the throat - -The crying of the cock!
A tidal wave of applause.
Flood a burst of blush again on the schoolboy's face. In everybody is happy and laugh satisfied, he says proudly: "My as a child most excellent unique skill is to study cocks and crow, have never expected the people in middle age had chances to show off, let everybody laugh at me! " He has joined and makinged an obeisance towards everybody, takes on one's own seat generously.
Have the honor to hear this schoolboy learn the person who the cock crows, there is my one. I sat in the middle of the classmates at that time, after the ones that break through the skies that cry, I have struck all palms red. Just as what teacher have said, we are intoxicated at will but in the happy atmosphere in one all without exception, nearly forget to want the reason that he performs. This schoolboy has discussed the experience that he performs: "I think teacher can criticize I ruthlessly, I expect, can let I performance, not in fact mattering either, the atmosphere later on let me unlock quickly. " Later on he has not been late again, though his family is a good distance away, send the daughter to go to the kindergarten every morning.
Punish and reward the soul that can shake people too. In much man memory of ours, still remain the shame received because of coming late, for example the laughing at of teacher's scornful reprimanding and classmate, has not really expected, come late, can come by such means too "  Punish " . Different life
These makes me and remembers a teenager that I know, because is late often, he is often reprimanded by the teacher, punished to stand still to the classroom. The self-esteem of this teenager receives the darker and darker injury, go against mood more and more serious, have dropped out of school at last.
There are many kinds of ways that people and people influence each other, the gentle, severe, releive one, fierce, but no matter which kind, what all of us hoped to keep in the heart is happy instead of the shade. It is severe to replace with gentleness, use and releive and replace fiercely, use and reward and replace punishing, this is grown from small late rich adults had a taste of by us.