Friday, July 10. 2009
Know how to give up
Know how to give up
Unavoidable blank in life and regretting, very ripe talents give up while knowing how to give up.
Taiwanese writer light like discussing to the understanding given up, the following are her personal experience in Wu:
Not knowing why recently, suddenly a lot of people asked me this question: "Where to have time to write for? "
Really have.
Because really have much time to write for and sleep, certainly answer with very modest tone.
Get used to exploring the modern of HOWTO shortcut, will ask: Why have? When is it?
All all right after getting up and before sleeping. So long as I feel this must be finished, and I have strength that can finish it. But I find oneself to be in the past getting hardworking, only can explain " time eldest, the strength is declined gradually ",Meet now " You write 3,000 words each day " Question,always a little feel deeply ashamed. I do not think of taking anything " Heavy quality no weight " To comfort oneself, there was a period of very long time in the past, I really had every day wanting to write, and average skill that can write 2,000 words, but 1,000 words coming out more inside are results of incorrectlying relay an erroneous message. Now, when I feel physical power is not good, I will choose to sleep, as I feel
While taking no part in physical labour, I will choose to swim, when I feel I should be relaxed, I will go out to lead an aimless existence - -Lead an aimless existence and mean that enjoys pleasant sensation occupied with nothing among the crowds, go shopping, see comedy and actioner, and friend drink afternoon tea never talk about anything serious you like, though think that there are things to be written, still one share is so hot as to burst out in the heart, instigating me I will give up, choose to do other things. Different life
I become more lazy. I think, I relatively know when to control it. Control itself must control even. "Unless it look like one head ox in the past, it face upward there aren't head,but does not know by oneself in order to what, have no time to chew the rice that one's own sweat on the brow is ploughed out too. " One enters the middle age early, the successful friend says to me: "Seem, have fulfillment very much but heart empty, it seems, have a lot, seem nothing have again Side effect, pay no attention to one's own body, do one disease Could take the luxurious ocean liner to travel around the world after thinking in the past that retired, I find now, even travel around the world after retiring, should bring the doctor, nurse a counterpart, have an intravenous drip, see the scenery "
I have laughed wickedly: "If you would like to pay enough money, you could find the beautiful woman nurse like the flower of the looks that day "
"By that day, how it is beautiful like the woman nurse of the flower that find the looks? " He says.
It seems to want it until a certain age, after there are some things, you can realize to, you build to look like a nobly mansion in life constructing, but only the hardware, the water pipe inside is in bad repair, it is insufficient to allocate, the wall peels off, it is very difficult to find out the reason to rebuilt, unless you dismantle the whole house.
You are unwilling to dismantle. That is the energies of all one's life, dismantle, all persons will know who you are, you will probably know either who oneself is.
A lot of successful persons begin to see, their house went wrong in these years, a lot of people are converted to Buddhism, a lot of people sit in meditation, spirit is enjoyed very much when making, it is to love wanting to come back malicously to be greedy to be angry and silly. I am still looking for a way, but I know, leave real life, all wants to solve and ache the angry way rapidly, just a piece of anesthetics.
One soul leader of sport say this have 80% person know which way to go, hesitate too lazy too too in the world, have twenty percent everybody afford to grow, however, you get efforts, when getting to the end, and then come to give up your efforts.
Never make great efforts to cross anything, the person that there is nothing, " give up " It is easy to them, because they are nothing easy to give up. A lot of No. even the mistake, will pass by once, like Sakyamuni, if his origin is not a prince, see all over the world to the limit flourishingly, he will not see through, so hollow behind pool meat forest of wine and peaceful song and dance. A beggar does not have nothing, nothing easy to give up, but they can not give up greedily either.
I have been chewing the taste among them. I think, very lucky, I am those too diligent persons. It is chased that there are dreams, unwilling to let the life have blanks and regret, but still have regret.
Except that the life can't give up, very ripe person, just know how to give up while giving up. The person not so ripe, as I, finally afraid, after giving up, the blank makes me frightened.
I am but also misled, so, it seems that it is much the much thing that I have done. Make oneself so tired sometimes, lie in the bathtub breathing.
Unwilling to give up one will not lose any work after giving up, only because I will say to oneself, you can do better than now, or is afraid of not finding the better one.
It is very difficult to refuse an unsuitable one's own dinner party, is afraid others talk about oxen more and more; In some unsuitable occasion, want, turn round, walk, afraid one's own EQ value low too really while being very difficult walk; It is very difficult to leave a lover, even if you know he is not fit for you at all. Want what does it receive more also ' " anything " What is it? All of us can not say) ? So we know perfectly well can Chaos go down again, unwilling. It is useless to stop over, it is useless to grasp too much, know, but unwilling.
Even unwilling one's own unhappy and melancholy.
In so whole that tired work struggle, for a long time, struggle for a long time in an unsuitable own love very oneself once, struggle in one's own principle and contradiction of the favor a lot of times, everything all want to have a result, in should say goodbye simply say goodbye, energies that do not want and pay in the past, so is bitter.
I am speculating yet, anything should be given up, any shouldn't give up. See " after you died, there must be a lot of things and wait to finish " This sentence hour, I force a smile. Can't give up for those, where is the most important thing in what lives we give up? The workaholic's father, for the fulfillment and sense of duty, childhood giving up the children; The woman has given up the depth that one's own life may excavate for the morning and evening; Lover for the moment small to care and battle of face give up love that may have If, the moderns will all calculate the rate of return on investment, but nobody can calculate, while getting some things that can see, how much does it have and life of close concern to each other beauty flow among meaning the palm like sand. And the sand of the life that hold in our palm is limited, once lose, can't drag for back.
My head is often like a refrigerator which is filled up with the food.
I am still calculating, anything should be thrown out. Otherwise, never there may new things that will be put in. Not throwing out, anything always becomes bad in the inside slowly; Some things, it is regrettable to lose, but has put all one's life, can not eat either. The so-called one " The outlook on life " ,It is probably a question how to determine the going or staying of the content thing for one's own refrigerator.
All of us are calculating yet, anything should be given up. While calculating, struggle and hesitate. Nobody can decide what should be given up, what will stay for us. The what is called one is optimistic, only understand, can not stay, it will be useless too to stay.
Unavoidable blank in life and regretting, very ripe talents give up while knowing how to give up.
Taiwanese writer light like discussing to the understanding given up, the following are her personal experience in Wu:
Not knowing why recently, suddenly a lot of people asked me this question: "Where to have time to write for? "
Really have.
Because really have much time to write for and sleep, certainly answer with very modest tone.
Get used to exploring the modern of HOWTO shortcut, will ask: Why have? When is it?
All all right after getting up and before sleeping. So long as I feel this must be finished, and I have strength that can finish it. But I find oneself to be in the past getting hardworking, only can explain " time eldest, the strength is declined gradually ",Meet now " You write 3,000 words each day " Question,always a little feel deeply ashamed. I do not think of taking anything " Heavy quality no weight " To comfort oneself, there was a period of very long time in the past, I really had every day wanting to write, and average skill that can write 2,000 words, but 1,000 words coming out more inside are results of incorrectlying relay an erroneous message. Now, when I feel physical power is not good, I will choose to sleep, as I feel
While taking no part in physical labour, I will choose to swim, when I feel I should be relaxed, I will go out to lead an aimless existence - -Lead an aimless existence and mean that enjoys pleasant sensation occupied with nothing among the crowds, go shopping, see comedy and actioner, and friend drink afternoon tea never talk about anything serious you like, though think that there are things to be written, still one share is so hot as to burst out in the heart, instigating me I will give up, choose to do other things. Different life
I become more lazy. I think, I relatively know when to control it. Control itself must control even. "Unless it look like one head ox in the past, it face upward there aren't head,but does not know by oneself in order to what, have no time to chew the rice that one's own sweat on the brow is ploughed out too. " One enters the middle age early, the successful friend says to me: "Seem, have fulfillment very much but heart empty, it seems, have a lot, seem nothing have again Side effect, pay no attention to one's own body, do one disease Could take the luxurious ocean liner to travel around the world after thinking in the past that retired, I find now, even travel around the world after retiring, should bring the doctor, nurse a counterpart, have an intravenous drip, see the scenery "
I have laughed wickedly: "If you would like to pay enough money, you could find the beautiful woman nurse like the flower of the looks that day "
"By that day, how it is beautiful like the woman nurse of the flower that find the looks? " He says.
It seems to want it until a certain age, after there are some things, you can realize to, you build to look like a nobly mansion in life constructing, but only the hardware, the water pipe inside is in bad repair, it is insufficient to allocate, the wall peels off, it is very difficult to find out the reason to rebuilt, unless you dismantle the whole house.
You are unwilling to dismantle. That is the energies of all one's life, dismantle, all persons will know who you are, you will probably know either who oneself is.
A lot of successful persons begin to see, their house went wrong in these years, a lot of people are converted to Buddhism, a lot of people sit in meditation, spirit is enjoyed very much when making, it is to love wanting to come back malicously to be greedy to be angry and silly. I am still looking for a way, but I know, leave real life, all wants to solve and ache the angry way rapidly, just a piece of anesthetics.
One soul leader of sport say this have 80% person know which way to go, hesitate too lazy too too in the world, have twenty percent everybody afford to grow, however, you get efforts, when getting to the end, and then come to give up your efforts.
Never make great efforts to cross anything, the person that there is nothing, " give up " It is easy to them, because they are nothing easy to give up. A lot of No. even the mistake, will pass by once, like Sakyamuni, if his origin is not a prince, see all over the world to the limit flourishingly, he will not see through, so hollow behind pool meat forest of wine and peaceful song and dance. A beggar does not have nothing, nothing easy to give up, but they can not give up greedily either.
I have been chewing the taste among them. I think, very lucky, I am those too diligent persons. It is chased that there are dreams, unwilling to let the life have blanks and regret, but still have regret.
Except that the life can't give up, very ripe person, just know how to give up while giving up. The person not so ripe, as I, finally afraid, after giving up, the blank makes me frightened.
I am but also misled, so, it seems that it is much the much thing that I have done. Make oneself so tired sometimes, lie in the bathtub breathing.
Unwilling to give up one will not lose any work after giving up, only because I will say to oneself, you can do better than now, or is afraid of not finding the better one.
It is very difficult to refuse an unsuitable one's own dinner party, is afraid others talk about oxen more and more; In some unsuitable occasion, want, turn round, walk, afraid one's own EQ value low too really while being very difficult walk; It is very difficult to leave a lover, even if you know he is not fit for you at all. Want what does it receive more also ' " anything " What is it? All of us can not say) ? So we know perfectly well can Chaos go down again, unwilling. It is useless to stop over, it is useless to grasp too much, know, but unwilling.
Even unwilling one's own unhappy and melancholy.
In so whole that tired work struggle, for a long time, struggle for a long time in an unsuitable own love very oneself once, struggle in one's own principle and contradiction of the favor a lot of times, everything all want to have a result, in should say goodbye simply say goodbye, energies that do not want and pay in the past, so is bitter.
I am speculating yet, anything should be given up, any shouldn't give up. See " after you died, there must be a lot of things and wait to finish " This sentence hour, I force a smile. Can't give up for those, where is the most important thing in what lives we give up? The workaholic's father, for the fulfillment and sense of duty, childhood giving up the children; The woman has given up the depth that one's own life may excavate for the morning and evening; Lover for the moment small to care and battle of face give up love that may have If, the moderns will all calculate the rate of return on investment, but nobody can calculate, while getting some things that can see, how much does it have and life of close concern to each other beauty flow among meaning the palm like sand. And the sand of the life that hold in our palm is limited, once lose, can't drag for back.
My head is often like a refrigerator which is filled up with the food.
I am still calculating, anything should be thrown out. Otherwise, never there may new things that will be put in. Not throwing out, anything always becomes bad in the inside slowly; Some things, it is regrettable to lose, but has put all one's life, can not eat either. The so-called one " The outlook on life " ,It is probably a question how to determine the going or staying of the content thing for one's own refrigerator.
All of us are calculating yet, anything should be given up. While calculating, struggle and hesitate. Nobody can decide what should be given up, what will stay for us. The what is called one is optimistic, only understand, can not stay, it will be useless too to stay.
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