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Give a simple happiness of oneself

Want, let one's own happy life always, but heart often have a kind of empty feeling that falls, it is the pressure from pressure or working of life, why speak clearly either? People that look around happy life envy why give oneself one simple happiness really so!

A lot of older old men live in the building that I inhabit, the one that saw them pass in and out every day is always so happy, morning getting up, doing exercises, buying vegetables early, go out, have a walk evening, gather, reach in front of floor chat, can hear a burst of laughs. The old folks over 70 years old live in the opposite house of my home, are all school pensioners, the family often assembles and has to a lot of old men, they play mahjong, then drink, sing, so happy. This people the kinds of lives psychology,people can because set the setting sun, sad waiting for dark arrival, and want the brilliance, beauty as the setting sun. There are couple who the couple brought newly upstairs, age is not very old, but not young, the man is still working, the woman has not probably worked or retired, two people will go out to take a walk every night. Have day by day very overcast to want, rain, two people go out, soon, man man come back, having come down upstairs and taken two umbrellas, two people have walked together. Man come back, can smile breathe out look to one's own window of house by bike every day, it is probably that the spouse looks at him on the balcony too. I do not know they are how to pass by when being young, but old can so accompany interdependently, it is really a kind of happiness.

The life that older old man can be so happy, graceful, several pairs of couple of age look always so happy and happy too that the young one is similar to me. The third floor have a couple, combine after being, woman belong to countryside, the man has no work, do some zero work outside, they gave birth to a pair of twins last year - --Two girl, can walk just now now, can embrace, come out in front of floor playing often. Often see the scene that the man comes home from work in the evening: The face is black, the clothes are dirty too, when go to the building gate, see the wife is bringing two children playing, the magnificent smile emerges on the face, is calling " the elder son " in the mouth ,Share that satisfy and happiness parents person realize only. I do not think them two's life is well-to-do, it is very heavy to raise two children and bear, but can enjoy this family happiness, what is born? My home building have one middle aged couple, woman parents live at my family floor, they were and parents lived together originally, the building that is later on bought by oneself was moved out, two people both work in the running water company, the woman often comes to my home to charge the water rate, give I impression a dark one this to couple most no matter when see, smile, breathe out, they have a daughter, have been admitted to a very good university this year, really let people envy.

Happiness is a kind of feeling of people's heart, it will be happy to live in the luxurious villa, the temporary workers living and rushing about for life ground floor, every day perhaps will live more substantially. Let us look for in the middle school of life happily, a simple happiness of oneself that give!

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Then the night, in the dream dimly
Characters whether I make hopeless or helpless comfort to loneliness, to release from one wallow in, come pillow soul of dream night. Float, die day and night mourn in silence, the ones that are entangled with read and think of not allowing me to feel tired and tired. Close mood like mountain stream Ling purling and slow and long in spring of Ling, flow and rush down quietly when being quiet and beautiful. The state of mind at every moment skims over the colored shadow of the simple grass, it is warm to distribute the sparkling and crystal-clear one. In remote years, I am unwilling to wake you with the hasty step, only wish by such meditating and pondering ornamental your warm and sweet fond dream. Also if your likeness of the deceased often appears in my clever sea, intersperse my enchanting dreamland in riotous profusion. Either dense or light, either light or deep, splendour and elegance loved of rippling of fine and smooth ripple, those unreal image is the light fairy that the wind above water sways.
In realistic world, I understand one's own hard pursuing, you are my star of that hope that will never sink and fall in mind. Look up at you, I can't inhibit oneself like the innocent worried happiness like the child, if you snuggle up to before eyes, tell troubling anxiety and joyous and pleased of my bottom of heart to you tirelessly. Only in front of you, I can cast aside the false camouflage and constraint of soul, most really do the most pure explanation. You are the heart people of me, weave our magical dreamland in the heart network beautiful. Soul is entrusted in one's own pious facing upward holily, the steady and sure stability that thought from then on. The converted to flying into the tranquil woods like the bird at nighting of that kind of soul, the ones that have not tossed about in bed and drifted in the road are eager and anxious and ignorant and restless. Make the brightness very at night, the mood becomes very quiet too.
Then the night, in the dream, I still stand into Clay Di's inferior posture, the infatuation that feels as before, attachment as before and admiring. All hope is turned into the golden yellow dream. You are a sun with gloriously radiant sky of A, the ocean that the blazing feelings has dyed my fond dream golden yellow. You clasp me to one's bosom, stare lastingly quietly. I am magnificent in your chest, burst forth into a most beautiful scenery in the remotest places with the warmest color. Without place where sunshine can not shine, your general passion with the fire is burning my life. Every tiny petal of mine is showing off vivid color, is fascinated by your bold and unrestrained and strong brilliant rays. The sunflower, champaign, village, wheat field of A are chasing your burning fiercely and flourishing enthusiasm.
Then the night, in the dream, we closed one's eyes, embrace deeply, stick the body closely. I am in fear one's own sun will shake off falling from holding in the arms because of my carelessness, the affectionate chest lets me not dare to have turbid and urgent breath while gathering around, is afraid such a sound will wake my dreamland. The nervous one shrugs one's shoulders in my nerve is in muscles, my blood is pouring under the skin rapidly. You in accordance with in accordance with lean against, make I optical fundus staring affectionate, without saying a word we, slight trembling in the arms that I am here. We are releasing all body all heating power and passion, everything is known well like that, once became attached to ten thousand years of millennium like us.

Then the night, in the dream, my sun sheds tears, sob gently. Meet, does not take leave of; Happy, not melancholy. I have no more speech to comfort you, your tears drop on my bottom of heart. You tell me gently, that is happy, happy. Your hands cross my fluffy and elegant beautiful hair, is comforting my back softly. I know leading the need tears off of passion, the rainwater has cleaned the sky, still magnificent on auspicious day. Sight one will come for warm tenderness, what I moved bearing is moist. Hang a sun which take turns the tears in my life, is sounding my golden aeolian bell, it is said movingly that drifting. When a lot of baffled tidal surges of emotion are turbulent, I can only have one of the bottom of heart tighter, unwilling to let go. 

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Late reason
    Train the lesson to go on in an adult's psychological consultation.
A middle aged man slips into the classroom from the back door silently. His cat's waist, holding the breath, attempt to escape from the teacher's sight. He is late.
When he curves the lower body and plans to sit on a seat most nearby in the last row, the teacher has stopped him: "This classmate, could you come in the front? "
His face is so shy as to be aglow immediately, he says at once: "Unfair to a teacher, the road has blocked up, so I   "Concentrating one's attention the students listening to the talk are throwing the sight into him one after another, everybody eats and smiles eating, is a kind of well-meaning making fun of. After all, one late middle aged man, at this moment but have pity on and not lovelying like a child making a mistake, childhood when enough to let everybody remember oneself to be naughty and pure.
The teacher says gently: "I know, everybody will have a late reason, but you are late after all, punish you for giving a performance. "
"Give a performance? " The middle aged man is more shy, the finger entangles ceaselessly the schoolbag is taken, " I can not can not sing dance as well as, I have never performed and celebrated a festival the eye   "He does not really know what is to be done.
"It doesn't matter, perform any program at will, all of us are welcomed. Though your coming late has broken our listening to the teacher, your performance will bring happiness to us, I believe each classmate will applaud warmly. " The teacher hardly finishes speaking, burst into warm applause in the classroom, the happy laugh fills the air in applause.
"Moan and cough! " Late schoolboy has one sound of clear throat, will perform finally. After the fragmentary laugh, peace and quiet that nearly suffocates has appeared in the classroom. Only see him hold the head high, has given out loud and sonorous sharp trying their best from the throat - -The crying of the cock!
A tidal wave of applause.
Flood a burst of blush again on the schoolboy's face. In everybody is happy and laugh satisfied, he says proudly: "My as a child most excellent unique skill is to study cocks and crow, have never expected the people in middle age had chances to show off, let everybody laugh at me! " He has joined and makinged an obeisance towards everybody, takes on one's own seat generously.
Have the honor to hear this schoolboy learn the person who the cock crows, there is my one. I sat in the middle of the classmates at that time, after the ones that break through the skies that cry, I have struck all palms red. Just as what teacher have said, we are intoxicated at will but in the happy atmosphere in one all without exception, nearly forget to want the reason that he performs. This schoolboy has discussed the experience that he performs: "I think teacher can criticize I ruthlessly, I expect, can let I performance, not in fact mattering either, the atmosphere later on let me unlock quickly. " Later on he has not been late again, though his family is a good distance away, send the daughter to go to the kindergarten every morning.
Punish and reward the soul that can shake people too. In much man memory of ours, still remain the shame received because of coming late, for example the laughing at of teacher's scornful reprimanding and classmate, has not really expected, come late, can come by such means too "  Punish " . Different life
These makes me and remembers a teenager that I know, because is late often, he is often reprimanded by the teacher, punished to stand still to the classroom. The self-esteem of this teenager receives the darker and darker injury, go against mood more and more serious, have dropped out of school at last.
There are many kinds of ways that people and people influence each other, the gentle, severe, releive one, fierce, but no matter which kind, what all of us hoped to keep in the heart is happy instead of the shade. It is severe to replace with gentleness, use and releive and replace fiercely, use and reward and replace punishing, this is grown from small late rich adults had a taste of by us.  

Know how to give up
    Unavoidable blank in life and regretting, very ripe talents give up while knowing how to give up.
Taiwanese writer light like discussing to the understanding given up, the following are her personal experience in Wu:
Not knowing why recently, suddenly a lot of people asked me this question: "Where to have time to write for? "
Really have.
Because really have much time to write for and sleep, certainly answer with very modest tone.
Get used to exploring the modern of HOWTO shortcut, will ask: Why have? When is it?
All all right after getting up and before sleeping. So long as I feel this must be finished, and I have strength that can finish it. But I find oneself to be in the past getting hardworking, only can explain " time eldest, the strength is declined gradually  ",Meet now "  You write 3,000 words each day "  Question,always a little feel deeply ashamed. I do not think of taking anything "  Heavy quality no weight "  To comfort oneself, there was a period of very long time in the past, I really had every day wanting to write, and average skill that can write 2,000 words, but 1,000 words coming out more inside are results of incorrectlying relay an erroneous message. Now, when I feel physical power is not good, I will choose to sleep, as I feel
While taking no part in physical labour, I will choose to swim, when I feel I should be relaxed, I will go out to lead an aimless existence - -Lead an aimless existence and mean that enjoys pleasant sensation occupied with nothing among the crowds, go shopping, see comedy and actioner, and friend drink afternoon tea never talk about anything serious you like, though think that there are things to be written, still one share is so hot as to burst out in the heart, instigating me   I will give up, choose to do other things. Different life


I become more lazy. I think, I relatively know when to control it. Control itself must control even. "Unless it look like one head ox in the past, it face upward there aren't head,but does not know by oneself in order to what, have no time to chew the rice that one's own sweat on the brow is ploughed out too. " One enters the middle age early, the successful friend says to me: "Seem, have fulfillment very much but heart empty, it seems, have a lot, seem nothing have again   Side effect, pay no attention to one's own body, do one disease   Could take the luxurious ocean liner to travel around the world after thinking in the past that retired, I find now, even travel around the world after retiring, should bring the doctor, nurse a counterpart, have an intravenous drip, see the scenery   "
I have laughed wickedly: "If you would like to pay enough money, you could find the beautiful woman nurse like the flower of the looks that day   "
"By that day, how it is beautiful like the woman nurse of the flower that find the looks? " He says.
It seems to want it until a certain age, after there are some things, you can realize to, you build to look like a nobly mansion in life constructing, but only the hardware, the water pipe inside is in bad repair, it is insufficient to allocate, the wall peels off, it is very difficult to find out the reason to rebuilt, unless you dismantle the whole house.
You are unwilling to dismantle. That is the energies of all one's life, dismantle, all persons will know who you are, you will probably know either who oneself is.
A lot of successful persons begin to see, their house went wrong in these years, a lot of people are converted to Buddhism, a lot of people sit in meditation, spirit is enjoyed very much when making, it is to love wanting to come back malicously to be greedy to be angry and silly. I am still looking for a way, but I know, leave real life, all wants to solve and ache the angry way rapidly, just a piece of anesthetics.

One soul leader of sport say this have 80% person know which way to go, hesitate too lazy too too in the world, have twenty percent everybody afford to grow, however, you get efforts, when getting to the end, and then come to give up your efforts.
Never make great efforts to cross anything, the person that there is nothing, " give up " It is easy to them, because they are nothing easy to give up. A lot of No. even the mistake, will pass by once, like Sakyamuni, if his origin is not a prince, see all over the world to the limit flourishingly, he will not see through, so hollow behind pool meat forest of wine and peaceful song and dance. A beggar does not have nothing, nothing easy to give up, but they can not give up greedily either.
I have been chewing the taste among them. I think, very lucky, I am those too diligent persons. It is chased that there are dreams, unwilling to let the life have blanks and regret, but still have regret.
Except that the life can't give up, very ripe person, just know how to give up while giving up. The person not so ripe, as I, finally afraid, after giving up, the blank makes me frightened.
I am but also misled, so, it seems that it is much the much thing that I have done. Make oneself so tired sometimes, lie in the bathtub breathing.
Unwilling to give up one will not lose any work after giving up, only because I will say to oneself, you can do better than now, or is afraid of not finding the better one.
It is very difficult to refuse an unsuitable one's own dinner party, is afraid others talk about oxen more and more; In some unsuitable occasion, want, turn round, walk, afraid one's own EQ value low too really while being very difficult walk; It is very difficult to leave a lover, even if you know he is not fit for you at all. Want what does it receive more also '  " anything "  What is it? All of us can not say)  ? So we know perfectly well can Chaos go down again, unwilling. It is useless to stop over, it is useless to grasp too much, know, but unwilling.  
Even unwilling one's own unhappy and melancholy.
In so whole that tired work struggle, for a long time, struggle for a long time in an unsuitable own love very oneself once, struggle in one's own principle and contradiction of the favor a lot of times, everything all want to have a result, in should say goodbye simply say goodbye, energies that do not want and pay in the past, so is bitter.
I am speculating yet, anything should be given up, any shouldn't give up. See " after you died, there must be a lot of things and wait to finish " This sentence hour, I force a smile. Can't give up for those, where is the most important thing in what lives we give up? The workaholic's father, for the fulfillment and sense of duty, childhood giving up the children; The woman has given up the depth that one's own life may excavate for the morning and evening; Lover for the moment small to care and battle of face give up love that may have   If, the moderns will all calculate the rate of return on investment, but nobody can calculate, while getting some things that can see, how much does it have and life of close concern to each other beauty flow among meaning the palm like sand. And the sand of the life that hold in our palm is limited, once lose, can't drag for back.
My head is often like a refrigerator which is filled up with the food.
I am still calculating, anything should be thrown out. Otherwise, never there may new things that will be put in. Not throwing out, anything always becomes bad in the inside slowly; Some things, it is regrettable to lose, but has put all one's life, can not eat either. The so-called one "  The outlook on life "  ,It is probably a question how to determine the going or staying of the content thing for one's own refrigerator.
All of us are calculating yet, anything should be given up. While calculating, struggle and hesitate. Nobody can decide what should be given up, what will stay for us. The what is called one is optimistic, only understand, can not stay, it will be useless too to stay.